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Let them talk

Recently I came across a particular statement that was passed by a certain Hollywood actress. I'm sure she was getting interviewed. However, I'm not quite sure how the interview was going or what led to the conversation in which she made the statement I am about to share with you guys. She spoke about how she doesn't always go to church with her husband because "church folk are judgmental". Her husband isn't a pastor. However, he is a highly respected Christian motivational speaker who shares the word. He is also a well respected movie producer. She mentioned that it feels like she doesn't receive correction which comes from a place of love but rather it comes across as judgement. So she decided that she doesn't want to get discouraged and would rather "protect" her spirit. Now this statement got me so worked up because I just didn't understand😂. Y'all can help me understand guys because you know I always appreciate feedback but I...

Battling insecurities

Insecurity - uncertainty or anxiety about oneself; lack of confidence. Hey guys😊❣I hope everybody is good and taking care. Today I wanted to talk about something that we all deal with at some point in our lives. Everything I talk about on my blog is always something that I've dealt with before, struggled with, maybe even still struggling with or have conquered. Insecurity drills a hole into a person’s heart, minimizes their integrity, and accumulates as plaque build up, hindering any kind of future growth. An insecure person is a defeated person. Just as any human being’s growth is stifled by the insecurity within them. Everybody  has something that they haven't come to terms with about themselves. Some have and are working towards being a better version of themselves, but some still feel inadequate to the point where they have come to terms with things that aren't true.   The most 3 common causes of insecurity are: Type 1: Insecurity Based on R...

Who are you drinking from?

The drinking I'm talking about is not in the literal sense, but in the spiritual sense. You drink from the people around you. You can drink life, love, happiness, joy and all the wonderful things that help grow and nourish your spirit. However, you could also drink whatever poison it is that they may be giving you. By drinking I mean what value, be it spiritually, emotionally or physically do the people around you add into your life? Mainly focusing on your spirit though because whatever happens in the spiritual manifests into the natural, so when your spirit is good everything else will also be good. When we talk about the people around you it's referring to your family and those you call your friends. Those are usually the most influential people in your life, and you drink from them because they are the ones that you spend the most time around. You pick a lot of things from them. I feel that friends can actually be more influential than your own family most of the time. Whic...