Negative energy get away
Don't ever make people feel bad for not having the same standards as you do. Sometimes we can find ourselves being a bit judgmental of how people go about their lives without really even putting time, effort or energy into understanding them and why they do the things that they do. Instead we function based on assumption and things that we would've heard about them or the situation. It is good to have independent and unbiased opinions and conclusions of people and situations. Personally put in the effort into understanding a person or situation and don't base your opinion on what you've heard or what you assume. You'll never be able to help anyone if you aren't relatable, loving and understating.
The problem with being a judgemental person is that you forget that you are also human and are prone to making mistakes. When those mistakes are made it won't be very easy for those around you to forgive you or to be understanding of the mistakes that you would've made. Instead of helping you get back up they'll think "oh, is this not the person who had it all together?". You'll come across as a hypocrite. That you say one thing but can't even live up to it yourself.
With that said, there's nothing wrong with setting standards for your life. Knowing how you want to live and how you want to go about certain things. Upholding your morals and values. All this gives you a sense of direction for YOUR life. It's great to want the same for others especially if you feel that it would be of great benefit to them, but don't blast them. Know the approach to use. People can tell the difference between someone who is trying to help them and someone who is just straight up daggering them. Love people, be there for people and want good things for the people around you. Comfort them and be a positive factor. Don't be the person they avoid even when they are already stranded and need help, but because they will receive judgement rather than assistance they'll never come to you. That's all people want really, to be loved. So be that safe space for God's children in a world full of negativity.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
9 Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. 10 If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble. 11 Likewise, two people lying close together can keep each other warm. But how can one be warm alone? 12 A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.
John 15:17-19
17 This is my command: Love each other.
The World’s Hatred
18 “If the world hates you, remember that it hated me first. 19 The world would love you as one of its own if you belonged to it, but you are no longer part of the world. I chose you to come out of the world, so it hates you.
John 13:34
34 So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. 35 Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.”
At the end of the day guys, you can completely transform someone's life just by loving them. There is so much power in love. Especially in the love of God. Don't just rebuke people, explain things to them. Teach them and be an example. How you live is a way of ministering. Your lifestyle. What do people see when they look at your life? What do they think? Do they want to be like you or they don't even want imagine a life like yours. Help people to deal with what you think could be the source of their problems. When that has been revealed then so much progress and conviction to becoming the best version of themselves will follow.
Thank you for taking some time out to read this💫
'Til next time❤
The problem with being a judgemental person is that you forget that you are also human and are prone to making mistakes. When those mistakes are made it won't be very easy for those around you to forgive you or to be understanding of the mistakes that you would've made. Instead of helping you get back up they'll think "oh, is this not the person who had it all together?". You'll come across as a hypocrite. That you say one thing but can't even live up to it yourself.
With that said, there's nothing wrong with setting standards for your life. Knowing how you want to live and how you want to go about certain things. Upholding your morals and values. All this gives you a sense of direction for YOUR life. It's great to want the same for others especially if you feel that it would be of great benefit to them, but don't blast them. Know the approach to use. People can tell the difference between someone who is trying to help them and someone who is just straight up daggering them. Love people, be there for people and want good things for the people around you. Comfort them and be a positive factor. Don't be the person they avoid even when they are already stranded and need help, but because they will receive judgement rather than assistance they'll never come to you. That's all people want really, to be loved. So be that safe space for God's children in a world full of negativity.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
9 Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. 10 If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble. 11 Likewise, two people lying close together can keep each other warm. But how can one be warm alone? 12 A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.
John 15:17-19
17 This is my command: Love each other.
The World’s Hatred
18 “If the world hates you, remember that it hated me first. 19 The world would love you as one of its own if you belonged to it, but you are no longer part of the world. I chose you to come out of the world, so it hates you.
John 13:34
34 So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. 35 Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.”
At the end of the day guys, you can completely transform someone's life just by loving them. There is so much power in love. Especially in the love of God. Don't just rebuke people, explain things to them. Teach them and be an example. How you live is a way of ministering. Your lifestyle. What do people see when they look at your life? What do they think? Do they want to be like you or they don't even want imagine a life like yours. Help people to deal with what you think could be the source of their problems. When that has been revealed then so much progress and conviction to becoming the best version of themselves will follow.
Thank you for taking some time out to read this💫
'Til next time❤
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